If prostitution is the oldest profession in the world then male infidelity is as old as humanity itself. The vexing question of course has always been why this is the case generation after generation. Some may point to biological origins – the instinct to perpetuate one’s genetic line comes to mind as a school of thought. Others may point to social or environmental influences - peer pressure to fit in with other male friends since birds of a feather must necessarily flock together.
One can always poke holes in each of these. In response to the first of the two one can raise the objection by pointing out that most of the main are actually just trying to have sex and not necessarily progeny. In fact many men will go to great extents to avoid taking responsibility for the “accidents” that may happen during their sexcapades. If perpetuation of their genetic line was the objective, such reaction would be inconsistent with the same. To the second, one can always object on the grounds that the potential and real costs that often follow revelations of such flagrante delicto incidents would surely surpass the benefit of just fitting in with the rest of the hype crowd.
The beauty of the topic at hand is that it lends itself to a free for all as far as the offering of alternative theories to explain it, and I for one cannot resist the temptation to jump in, if you excuse the pun. So do hear me out while I venture myten alternative explanations for male infidelity. I believe like with most things in life, often one reason or explanation is rarely sufficient, more so when a psyche as complex as the male’s is concerned. So I will profer a number of explanations,
First, men as a group have a distinct penchance towards adventure and the desire to conquer the unknown. It’s not just about the sex. It’s about the chase and the testing the strength of his charm against the thickness of her chastity concrete wall. Penetrating the wall (pun intended) is half the pleasure.
Second, men enjoy variety in other aspects of their life and the sex realm is no different if the naked truth(pun intended once again) is to prevail. It’s not that they are not satisfied with the partner they have. They are just not good with the same dish every night. Mind you women love variety too to boot! Not just shoes, handbags and jewelry but in men too. It’s just that they tend to get very emotionally involved with whoever they sleep with, which makes switching back and forth between partners an emotional drain for them. At least this is more so for them than for men, and that gives them a tendency towards monogamy. Furthermore, over the generations they have developed the belief that a good man is hard to find so when you get a half decent one don’t fuck it up. In reality a hard man is good to find but I digress. Sometimes women erroneously believe changing positions, or lingerie or candle lit dinners will change this. Fundamentally this is flawed. It’s not the variety in the lingerie men seek – well you get the picture. This is also why a guy will have an affair with a less attractive woman than his wife. The advantage of the Jezebel is that her nether parts are new and exciting to the man.
Third, they are either bored or tortured by their current partners and need an outlet. Women as a distinct group have perfected the art of nagging men over the generations. Men are hardly congratulated for the value add they bring in their relationships. Mostly they are reminded of what they fail to do than what they do achieve. When back home they are greeted by demands and complaints rather than a nice glass of something strong to distress. When it gets too much an outlet is sought outside and what better way than a sexual release? Especially, with someone who strokes his ego and reminds him that he is also a special being. Mind you, it will probably cost him some cash too somehow, but the Jezebel is the consummate diplomat who would tell a guy to go to hell in such a way that a bloke looks forward to the trip! As an extension of the ego trip, it is one way of checking if he’s still got it.
Fourth, notice that most of the time a guy is cheating it is with another woman and not another man, with obvious exceptions. This means for every man cheating there is a woman helping him to do so. Now some may say, the women are doing so ignorantly. I beg to differ. Women are so good at figuring out what a man is up to and men are so bad at hiding their secret liaisons that any bird brained woman will figure out quickly he is getting some on the side if she can be bothered to find out. In short, even in the absence of hard cold facts, a woman’s wily ways will enable her to know she is part of a threesome in absentia! Yet they will continue entertaining such a man and allowing him access to their heavenly goodies. I suppose it is because women have their own ego trips to contend with – if he is leaving what he’s got at home, then it means I am twice da woman she is…
Fifth, women like to play saviour to men and try to fix them. This would explain why the real players score big because the more extreme the Romeo syndrome the greater the panel-beating challenge from a woman’s perspective. So if he looks like he suffers from a roving eye, take him on board and try to tame him and turn him into a good boy. It’s often only her emotions are totally drained that a woman realises you can’t fix what doesn’t wanna be fixed.
Sixth and shoot me if you must, they are still searching for the woman who will tell them their penis is just too big to fit inside them. For only then will they believe that their penises are big enough to satisfy a woman fully.
Seventh, in the event of Russian roulette being outlawed in pretty much every country, infidelity is the next best risk filled thrill men seek. Why else would a perfectly sensible man risk being skinned alive and cleaned out at the divorce court for shagging a woman who compared to his wife looks like Godzilla?
Eighth, men’s life expectancy is considerably shorter than women’s so it makes sense to pack in as much sex as possible from more than one partner since you are unlikely to outlive your partner and enjoy second marriage sex for variety.
Ninth, it is revenge or for not having found their primary mates as virgins when they hooked up with them. You know how much men crave experienced virgins after all!
And now for the tenth and final reason – it reminds them of how much better really the sex at home is. This is why they will usually go back home and will not leave the nagging wife for the lover! And that is my two cents worth.
AfriqueBuzz Sex talk – with Miss LoshaqWhat is sex for a modern African Man and Woman
Usually most Africans find talking about sex a taboo subject. Most countries even have banned porn sites or the production of any porn material. In Zambia you can get arrested if you are found with any sex toys. And in Malawi even reproducing your own private sex video can get you in trouble? Seriously who makes these rules?
It seems they only countries that sex porn is produced and distributed are Nigerian and South Africa. South Africa even has a strip clubs, where you go (usually men) go and pay a lot of money to just watch some girls strip their sexy clothes off while they dance so seductively. Then the men leave the clubs after getting all worked up for nothing.
But what does an African man really want when it comes to sex.. and hey an African woman, what is sex for her.? As I said this is still a taboo subject in some larger areas in Africa, but lately Africans are coming out of their shells and talking about sex with each other unlike during the old times, the times when, it was a norm for a man to use his organ just for productive purpose, and when a woman NEVER experienced orgasm!
So I put out the topic on twitter, Facebook, Yahoo connect and Google Buzz, the response I got was so overwhelming and fun to share here..
But before I discussed how the digital conversations went, I would like to share with you how some of the people I have had a chance to talk to about this exciting subject said.
I dropped this subject to these other two ladies Annie* and Amanda* they are both 25 (and NOT their real names) . Annie said, sex for her is “that satisfaction of being penetrated, it doesn’t matter if she orgasms or doesn’t”, she continued by saying she is more interested in the penetration other than the orgasm, “coz if I wanna orgasm I would rather use my own finger”. However her friend Amanda, said her objective “for sex to orgasm but she seem not to find a man that is able enough to make her orgasm every time they have sex..
This brought the debate I shared with my twitter followers sometime back; the men argued that every woman that fakes orgasm should be stoned to death and the women said that every man that fails to bring a woman to an orgasm must be given a death sentence…Well just as much as the sentence are heavy for either “wrongdoer” or “none orgasm achiever”, but there was some point in the arguments. I can understand a man’s ego if a woman has failed to orgasm during sex, coz let’s face it any man especially an African man has an ego to fill up and flood all the water bodies of the world; it would be killing him if you were to tell him “your sex is boring”. And some women are just so scared to demand the orgasm from a man, may be that how Annie* is like, but when I confronted her with this fear she said, “its not about the fear, I don’t have the fear, it’s just I don’t have time for a man who I have to educate to make me cum”…
The twitter conversation went on up until both parties came up to a conclusion. It was agreed that, when you are in a relationship and having sex, communication, compromise, sacrifice, flexibility, should be shared between the two lovers.
It is undeniably FACT that Sex topics and the act itself in Africa has changed. Most African women are also becoming to love/enjoy sex. One woman mentioned to me that “sex is an art of appreciating each other’s bodies” she further expressed that, “there is no point to having sex if she will not climax”.
How sex is viewed in Africa, has tremendously changed, and the evidence is seen throughout Africa, you get street vendors who will try to sell you porn, more and more women are buyng sexy lingerie to spice up their sex lives with their partners…More couples also seem to be watching porn together and trying out what they see in porn videos and sex talk has become part of an everyday conversation. However, though Africa now can easily communicate and enjoy sex, we must all be careful with the current epidemic which has traumatized and is killing our continent, let’s be responsible!
Sex Positions you MUST try- Upgrade Your Positions
Sex is an art of its own and good art has variety for it not to be boring, and just like a song can be boring if your play it on repeat so many times so can be SEX. Afriquebuzz came up with different sex positions for your trial and error to boost up your boring sex life.. Some of these sex positions are also very good for your body fitness. Believe it! A good sex workout achieves more results than just mere exercises.. And most ladies seem to be so shy to try new things, but don’t prejudge before you have tried it! There’s nothing wrong with traditional sex positions; an orgasm is an orgasm regardless of how one achieves it. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t try something new now and then; a little extra spice can go a very long way in the bedroom. These sex positions with a twist are saucy enough to bring out the minx in your woman, but aren’t so extreme that she has to leave her comfort zone to enjoy herself -- which means you’ll be free to enjoy yourself as well. As mentioned previously, women love sex just as much as you do, and they’re particularly fond of it when it involves any of these woman-pleasing sexual positions. While some women may not love each position on this list, rest assured that most do, and they’re happy to experiment for the sake of keeping things fresh and exciting. Women love those kinky positions, too, but sometimes a girl just wants a man to penetrate her in a style she knows she’ll be able to orgasm from. Try one of these sexual positions women enjoy and she probably will.
1.Doggy Leg Lift- with this move, a woman kneels with one of her legs and the other leg she keeps it up allowing the man to come in behind her..
2.Missionary with pillows- This is the same as the old missionary style but you add pillows underneath a woman’s back, this makes it easy and nicer for a man to thrust deep into her vagina while at the same the woman’s clitoris is gets rubbed with the mans body making her easily to orgasm.
3.Private lap dance- Good for women as it makes them feel like they are in charge a man can sit on a couch or simply just lay on the bed while a woman straddles him while the man plays with the woman nipples. This gives a woman a perfect way to orgasms..as her clitoris is positioned nicely.
4.Stand At Erection: This sexual position women enjoy is pretty self-evident in the title: Your woman is going to sit on a surface that stands level with your waist, and then you’re going to penetrate her as deeply as you possibly can. The further her legs are spread apart the better, and you can maximize this by drawing her legs around your waist. This will place her vagina directly against your groin, and will make deep thrusting incredibly easy for you, thereby increasing her odds of having a G-spot. Where can you put this sexual position women enjoy to good use? Try the kitchen counter, the bathroom counter, the washing machine, the piano, the hood of your car -- get as naughty as you like.
5. Spooning It: The spoon position makes for fabulous, and it’s really no wonder that it's on this list of sexual positions women enjoy. A woman loves the feel of a man’s chest against her back, she loves the feel of your arms wrapped around her and she loves the feel of being penetrated from behind. She especially enjoys it in the spoon position, because it’s incredibly comfortable and still allows you to play with her breasts and clitoris, which, frankly, most women can never get enough of.
Slide behind your woman, pull her bottom backward against your groin, and slip her top leg over your hip, drawing it slightly backward as you do so. Having her thighs spread apart like this will make her feel deliciously naughty and she’ll probably arch her body to give you even further access. This is a very comfortable sexual position women enjoy, and you can expect a great deal of moaning to ensue.
Sex position savvy: Take advantage of this position by reaching around and stimulating her clitoris and don’t forget to talk dirty to her as you do; this is one of the best positions for pillow talk.
6.Stoop Doggy Dog: You may be surprised to see doggy style making the list, but it really is one of the sexual positions women enjoy. That said, the doggy style you see in the average porn flick isn’t really what we’re talking about here -- we’re after something a bit more intimate and far more pleasurable. Yes, women do like being bent forward on all fours and taken from behind, but they like it even more when you bend forward as well, sliding your fingers between her thighs and toying with her clit. And women simply love it when you switch things up by pulling them into a kneeling position while you continue to thrust deeply. Women definitely enjoy doggy style, as long as they aren’t made to feel like objects.
Sex position savvy: While bending forward, gently nip your woman’s shoulders with your teeth; this area is very sensitive and most women enjoy being bitten there, as it greatly intensifies the sexual pleasure.
7.Reverse Cowgirl Squat: This is one sex position with a twist that often leads to wild and rambunctious sex. Get on your knees while facing the bed’s headboard, and rest your bum on your heels. Have your woman squat over your lap while grasping the headboard; she’s going to use it for leverage as she lowers herself onto your erection. Grip the curve of her waist as she rides you -- this will help to balance her during sex. Gentle hair tugging and mild spankings are also generally appreciated, and easily accomplished, in this position.
8.Standing Rhythm: Most men have fantasized about bending a woman over the sofa and having their wicked way with her. Believe it or not, most women have fantasized about their man doing the same thing. This sex position with a twist makes the most of that fantasy and then some. Bend your woman over the sofa (the kitchen table works quite well too) spread her legs apart. Deep thrusting is very easy from this position, and you’ll especially rock her world if you rotate your hips during penetration. Add a little spanking into the mix and you’ll have a very content woman on your hands when it’s over.
9.69 + 1 :Oral sex in the 69 position is something most people enjoy -- but there’s so much more fun to be had when you add fingers and toys into the mix. Instead of laying in the traditional position, lay side to side, as this will make it easier to manipulate the toys Start this sex position with a twist the old-fashioned way; tongue her clitoris until she’s wet and begging for penetration. Once she’s ready, maintain the oral stimulation while slipping a finger inside of her. Or, if you really want to drive her mad with lust, replace your fingers with a small vibrator; multiple orgasms are just around the corner.
So the other day my friend (Temwani) and I were involved in a mind confusing and heart irritating emotional disturbing discussion on why men cheat. Uh ha! Between the two of us we have read hundreds of articles and never were satisfied with the conclusions drawn at the end of each article. So on this day via the most convenient modern ways of chatting nowadays- Facebook and SKYPE. We decided to find out two things.
why Men Cheat
which race of men cheats a lot (coz they are also some confusions on that) and why they do it
I t could have been nice if I had Tiger Woods and Tony Parker’s skype contact details, The two would have made this investigation much much easier! That said, Tiger Woods never gave reasons as to why he cheated on his beautiful wife..or did he? And now Tony Parker?? Even men are shocked as to why he would cheat on the gorgeous and delectable Eva Longoria? However I am sure there were reasons. And so Temwani and I were very curious to investigate this mind confusing and heart irritating topic by asking the men on the continent she is currently staying and that I ask the men on the continent I am staying. We both decided to first ask our dear men as we are both in very stable relationships and totally in love with these men.
My man first explained that(trust him to say this) he sees no reason to cheat on a woman he loves so much, he says that is very disrespectful and that he would rather be honest if things are not working than to go out and sleep with someone else. He then reiterated that most men will feel tempted by another woman but they will let the feeling pass when/if they love their woman and if they don’t love and care for a woman then …..
But then he explained to me how he asked the similar question to some of his co-workers whom have been having multiple partners. So as to understand especially black men why most of them have multiple lovers and if culture and traditional beliefes have anything to do with it.. He works with these womanizers, and he has been watching them thoroughly and one day he decided to ask two of them, one from Mozambique and the other from South Africa, why they keep multiple partners?
The Mozambican retorted that it was in his culture as a shangani man to keep multiple lovers as it’s a sign of power; I rolled my eyes on that! Such bullshit I think!
in some parts of Africa its part of tradition to have more than one wife
The south African is a married man but has “side plates” as he calls these women, he claims that hitting the same pussy everyday is like having the same meal each which is equal to boring! Again I rolled my eyes on this ignorant stupid explanation.
And Temwani’s man’s view on this topic is that: a real man can never cheat on his woman however it depends, if he is not man enough he will or else if he doesn’t know what he wants, but a real man, will never cheat, and if things are not working out between them, its wise to sit down confront each other and if you cant find solutions then its better to agree to part ways”.
This man was asked to standon a highway with the placard
for his wife's forgiveness
This seems to be a similar view shared by my man and Temwani’s man, is this the view of any other man that believes cheating is unacceptable?
Caught in the ACT!
I get on skype and ask a Malawian friend (27 yrs of age) of mine if he has ever cheated and why? He said yes and it was with a girl that he has always wanted but never gave him a chance up until he was involved with another woman. And I then explain to him what the South African guy said and he comments and say “yeah he can see some sense in what the SA guy is saying? He goes on and adds that men hate nagging women, this is why the go look for peace elsewhere. I asked him why cheat on her when you can break up with her before going and looking for peace somewhere? He retorted by saying “sometimes letting go aint that easy “ , I asked him why not? He surprises me by answering “LOVE “. What! Did this guy just said “love” okay we getting somewhere now, or I think we were just going in circles coz my next question was “ why cheat on someone you love”, he responded “You can love someone and still cheat its possible”..at this juncture I have to say, this is why MEN ARE SO COMPLICATED or just plain STUPID!
I laugh and ask him to explain what he just said, so he said “a man can have different girls but there is only one who is dear to his heart, he can be ready to lose all but not this one, and the way she may be treated she may think she is all alone” I wasn’t astonished at all on this, he just confirmed what I assumed.. so I ask him “so Love doesn’t go hand in hand with sex” he answers “yeah the two are separate.
I am not satisfied with the three men’s responses so I get out my list of contacts, I Skype-called my Germany friend, who laughs at my effort of trying to solve this mystery to the question Why men Cheat, he then asked me “why do women Cheat” I told him I have no clue coz I have never cheated on any man, and he said to me there are so many reasons to why any man or anybody to cheat, first it varies from different men and women, some just dnt get the support (mental or physical) from their partners and they find that some other person is willing to offer it. He said to me, cheating on someone doesn’t mean you dnt love them, it means you are just missing something else your partner is not or willing to offer..
I somehow found myself drawn to his reasoning? But whyyyyy? I became adamant and told him, why then not communicate if your partner is not giving you the so called “emotional or physical support”, I feel deep in my reasoning being that communication can solve or at least stop the partner from cheating. He agrees with me, I think only for the sake of avoiding a big debate!
I then asked my American friend. He said to me, women bring it upon themselves for a man to cheat? To cut it short he blamed women for the lack of support bal blab la..
Yeah men love to blame women don’t they? He went on to say any man can find himself cheating on a woman just like any woman can find themselves cheating on a man, there are certain factors that can reinforce that, ie. Being drunk, angry, hence having less reasonable skills at that particular moment to foresee the consequences of their actions. He reiterated to me “NEVER SAY NEVER shit happens”
Well after talking to all these men across the world I got tired of their same conclusions as to why men cheat.
lack of physical and emotional support
lack of physical and emotional support
lack of physical and emotional support
Well Loshaq Says: men black or white African /American/European/Asian/ can cheat and only a few holds the belief that its better to break if off before jumping on another woman’s bed. And please don’t think I am saying women don’t cheat, believe me I know a several that have cheated on their men! And they too seem to blame the men as reasons to why they cheated – lack of support “(emotionally and physical)
Is Ass Better than Class? Looks VS Personality by Loshaq
Naomi bad ass personality with good looks!
Beyonce looks and great personality
So I tried and provoked some response to the question is Ass better than class, via Twitter and Facebook and the responses I got from men and women were not so surprising as one may think…I had to ask this question because when it comes to The Law of Attraction (I am not referring to physics rather chemistry here), different people like different things, and there is always a debate when it comes to men’s’ preferences’, ass or class, does it matter? And women’s preferences looks or Personality .By ass I don’t mean some big ass, the kind you see in the hip hop, music videos. I mean a woman with good package, and attractive woman, a sexy woman, a damn GOOD looking woman, and by class I mean, a woman with dignity, someone you can hold a decent, intelligent conversation with, a woman with poise and self confidence..bla bla bla
Most guys believe that they are turned on or rather their attention is flicked on by an attractive woman. That’s the ass side of it. And it takes class or I should rather say “the way she carries herself” for a man to decide whether to pursue her for the longer period. And the most men that I spoke to on this issue confirmed this so called fact. Most say an attractive /sexy/good-looking/ woman will surely attract any man’s eyes. He will look at her wishing he could tap the ass, or/and habitually tries and succeeds. But the next stage of that relationship will be determined by a woman’s personality.
Tyra Banks ex supermodel but mostly single
One man told me that, men love sex, and to them sex comes first when they see an attractive woman, and they love a woman that loves sex (this is tip to some of y’all ladies who didn’t know). But a woman looks are more important to a man, he said good looks will definitely get them attentive, but it will take her personality to make him want to marry her, or for a more deeper relationship.
AND another man’s view was even more fascinating, he confessed to me, whenever he meets an attractive girl they are never interesting to talk to and the most interesting girls he talks to are not that attractive. However the ones who are attractive and interesting to have a decent conversations are always taken.. He concluded by saying that the best deal a man can have is A GIRL WITH ASS AND CLASS. Having good looks is like have tertiary education; it’s the personality (hardwork) that will get you far in life rather than the looks (qualifications). And if a woman has both then that’s a plus and AN IDEAL package for a lot of men.
Looks VS Personality
One of the sexiest women in Holywood -
Jessica Alba
Heidi Klum ex-super Model with hubby
Seal (Musician)
Now almost all the women that I have interacted with in my life will tell you that they would prefer a guy with intelligence and a good personality than an ass with good looks! They however stated that dating a model look-alike of Tyson Beckford, or Brad Pitt will definitely bring some fun, which they would prefer to last only for few days, weeks, or two months. But marrying a Mr. 6 ft tall - with a stunning 6-8 pack of abs, buffed-up arms and gorgeous eyes will also be determined by his personality and “status”. Women want a guy with a good “status” or must have some potential of a better “status” in future to be their husbands. Women said dating a dumb guy can become quickly boring and the relationship doesn’t usually deepen further. Another woman mentioned that; depending on what stage a woman is , she will date either a sexy guy or a the one with a good personality or “status”.
Well Most people are attracted by looks in the first place, and the society has allow for this to happen, I watched a show on Tyra Banks one, she conducted an experiment to see if a sexy girl or an average girl could be help by members of the public. It turned out that the sexy attractive girl was helped even without asking for help. And the average looking girl had to cry out for help, and most people ignored her and few helped, very few.
Well Loshaq Says:it doesn’t matter which way you wanna go on this, just as long as you are happy with what you have or want to have, that’s what matters more! Look at Seal and Heidi Klum, don’t they make such a perfect couple? Real love comes from within and it’s very blind that the external qualities do not matter. Different strokes for different folks ….
Well most women would like to STILL believe that if they are a good cook they will easily find a husband. FLASH NEWS! Its NO LONGER TRUE! You need to be more than just a good cook in the kitchen!
A popular book a must to read!
Men love FOOD that is no doubt! But they LOVE SEX more and that is a FACT! A lot of women are timid to talk about sex and what is expected of them when sex is concerned. Most women prefer to be labeled good women. But what is a good woman. I once read a book recommended by my friend Temwani “Why men marry bitches” Sherry Argov. First of all the “bitch” word in this book does not relate to immorality of a woman she uses this word to mean that any woman that is independent and exude self esteem and confidence. They want woman that doesn’t need a man to be happy, a woman that knows her value in life. “the word "bitch" is used in her books to represent a modern, intelligent woman who is strong in her identity, knows what she wants from her life, how to get it done with minimal worry and risk and feels completely at ease with the emerging woman that she is. The word ‘bitch’ is not used to describe a shallow, dull witted woman who plots and plans all the time against other women who are more deserving”! Anyways I am not here to promote this book, or impose an American perspective of what a good wife material should be, but it’s a good book! it gives women a clear guidance and draws a conclusion that men are not interested in boring women, you must have more to offer than just good looks, cooks, or intelligence.
Most men I spoke to on this issue mentioned that, a good woman is the one that takes good care of a man in and outside the bedroom, without losing her identity. And Most African men pointed out that they can have all the fun with any other woman, educated, well travelled, all the good traits you can think of, but will choose to marry a woman that is presumed to be innocent, untouched and almost like virgins. That’s a bunch of acid for my stomach, in these modern days?? I don’t believe that at all.. so I went on to find the REAL men who are living in the MODERN REALITIES of what the world is NOW, and who would be completely honest with me..
This game is only understood by the ones involved!
Some men admitted regardless of their race, that they always looking for a motherly qualities in a woman. The woman must have the qualities similar to those of their mothers..so YEAH cooking is part of the ingredient to a good wife.. BUT it’s not the decisive factor at all. Another man told me, if he could find a woman that cooks like his mother, strong and intelligent and good in bed, then he would marry that woman. However, He stressed a point that there must be a very strong emotional connection.
The ingredient of a good wife is surely a combination of a lot of qualities. Beauty is the first one as a man is first attracted by the woman’s looks. A woman must take care of her looks. Another quality is of that “mother figure” thing. Almost every man I spoke to admittedly said that they would like a woman who is tough on them, in a good way of course, the one that straighten them out! Making them a better man, concurring with the old adage “behind a very successful man there is a tough ass woman” validating this belief. A woman must compliment a guy and show him that he can achieve things in life and excel in his career just like his mummy dearly pushed and guided him into the right path when growing up. A woman must show loyalty to his man, she must love him completely and purely , in sickness and healthy, for richer and poorer, from nice hair to baldness or grey hair, from a six/eight packs of abs to a one big round one!
I have also come to notice that most men love a confident woman, NOT too confident as well, the one with self-esteem; they find those women to be sexiest. A woman with confidence is assumed to be good in bed as she is NOT shy to be adventurous in bed. Men love women who are adventurous...a woman who will not object to try new things/fantasies in the bedroom, a flexible woman, an open minded one, the one that enjoy sex as much as he does.
Other qualities of a possible wife material would be dignity and pride. A woman must have self respect. Men are egocentric animals, they want to go out knowing that no other man will think their woman is slutty, if you are slutty he ONLY must know and it MUST end in the bedroom.
But NOT all men will want all the qualities I have mentioned here, and maybe I have omitted some, but these are the main ones, and some of these qualities will be found on the list of any man’s check list of a woman he will want to marry or has married., and some will not be there, but I guarantee you that on any mans list there will be SEX… and not just sex but GOOD SEX..
